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Loving Sincere, Losing Me,

Choosing Me

A Story of Love, Loss, Rediscovery & the Courage to Choose Yourself!

 

Sometimes losing yourself doesn't happen all at once.

It happens quietly, while loving someone else. While making excuses. While holding on. While believing that if you just love a little harder, give a little more, or wait a little longer, things will finally become what you hoped they would be.

Loving Sincere, Losing Me, Choosing Me is a deeply personal journey through love, heartbreak, self-discovery, and the powerful decision to come back home to yourself.

Because choosing yourself is the most powerful love.

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About the Book

"I Thought I Was Fighting for Love. I Didn't Realize I Was Losing Me."

 

What happens when loving someone begins to cost you pieces of yourself?

In Loving Sincere, Losing Me, Choosing Me, Author Vonetta G. Reeves takes readers inside a deeply personal relationship and the emotional journey that followed.  Through moments of love, hope, disappointment, heartbreak, reflection, and truth, she shares what it looks like to slowly lose yourself while trying desperately to hold on to someone else.

 

But this isn't simply a story about heartbreak.  It's a story about awakening.  About recognizing yourself again.

About learning that choosing yourself doesn't mean you never loved sincerely. It means you finally understand that loving someone else should never require abandoning yourself.  This is her story. 

 

But somewhere within these pages, you may recognize pieces of your own.

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